Catherine Sevenau: What’s Possible?

Rumi (13th-century Persian poet and mystic)

• Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right-doing, there is a field. I will meet you there.

Pema Chodron (1936 – American-born Tibetan Buddhist teacher)

• Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
• If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including those who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
• You are the sky. Everything else – It’s just the weather.

Ram Das (1931 – 2019)

• Suffering is part of our training program for becoming wise.
• Let’s lay down our righteousness and just be together.
• We’re all just walking each other home.

Michael Naumer (1942 – 2001)

• Do you want to be right or do you want to be effective?
• When you diminish another person, you lose their ability to contribute to you.
• The universe is not oppositional, only our minds are. 
• As consciousness rises, significance drops away.
• Gathering evidence is how we organize our resistance. 
• There’s a difference between taking a stand and being a stand.
• Position creates opposition; when I take a position, I have to defend it.
• Everything changes. Everything happens in cycles. Everything contributes.
• Complaint is an abdication of responsibility.
• The mind is a dangerous neighborhood; don’t go in there alone.
• People are miraculous surprises.

Being Wrong, by Kathryn Schulz

• We look into our hearts and see objectivity. We look into our minds and see rationality. We look into our beliefs and see reality.

My Better Angels Catherine Sevenau

• I shall honor my word, and take responsibility for what I speak.
• I shall honor my family, community and beloved biosphere.
• I shall tell the truth – and endeavor not to add to chaos, war or misery.
• I am grateful and humbly bow to the beauty and mystery of it all.
• Be of service to others, to something greater than myself.
• Clean up my inner litter; this includes not dumping it in my neighbor’s yard.
• Quit carping and complaining, raining my misery on others.
• I am not the center of the universe; life is not all about me and what I want.
• I am connected and interconnected with everything. What I do matters.
• Accept all of myself, and all of you – our greatness and pettiness.
• What I believe is true for me, so I’m careful with what I believe.

What’s So: What can I do to counteract the current umbrage in this country? I can keep my sense of humor, breathe, and stay in my lane. I can gracefully agree to disagree. I can have empathy for those who are living inside pain-bodies, who were hurt as young children and haven’t come to terms with it, who’ve never gotten counseling or therapy, who have no introspection, and rather than healing that pain, are paying it forward and splashing it on whoever and wherever they can. I believe that’s who is currently running things and why we’re in such a mess. Power, money and greed are in there, too, but that’s obvious. I can do my part not to perpetuate conflict with the supporters on that side of the fence. There are also plenty of angry far-left wingers in my backyard who are not helping. The news and the internet are a problem; they rile the masses and give little voice to the middle. Everyone wants to be mad. Everyone wants to be right. No one wants to give ground. It’s exhausting. Nothing will change until we shift some of our beliefs and positions. Cut down on the caffeine and take a nap. Cook soup for the neighbors. Plant some sunflowers. It’s a start. Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right-doing, there is a field. Bring cookies, I’ll meet you there.